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Frequently Asked Questions About Women's Infertility Support
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Do you offer in-person counseling sessions?
At this time, I am only offering telehealth sessions to provide flexible and convenient access to care. This allows you to attend sessions from the comfort of your own home while still receiving the same level of support and guidance.
Do you accept insurance?
I am out-of-network (OON) with most insurance. If I don’t accept your insurance, I can provide a superbill to help you request reimbursement from your provider. You can also use Thrizer to get instant insurance reimbursements and skip the wait. Reimbursements depend on your policy’s out-of-network coverage. HSA and FSA cards accepted.
Do I need to live in a specific state to work with you?
I’m based in Massachusetts and licensed to practice psychotherapy in Massachusetts, Washington, Rhode Island, and Arizona. You must be in one of these states for sessions.
Boston, Seattle, and Phoenix have excellent fertility clinics, but most lack in-house infertility therapists.
Feel Seen and Heard
I’m already getting infertility treatment, so why would I need infertility support?
Many clinics offer infertility support, especially in cities like Boston, Seattle, and Phoenix. But as one of thousands of patients, it can feel impersonal.
And if you don’t get pregnant, you’re often left without support during one of life’s hardest challenges.
I’m here to support you, no matter the outcome.
How is working with you different than other perinatal or infertility support options?
First, I work with just a few clients at a time, giving you my full attention and personalized support that’s all about you.
Second, my focus isn’t just on helping you get pregnant—it’s on empowering you to reconnect with your body, trust your instincts, and rediscover your inner strength. I help you discover your “why” so you can focus on what fulfills you and make confident, guilt-free decisions.
Do you have personal experience with IVF?
Yes. My daughter was conceived with IVF treatment. I always knew “it takes a village” to raise a child, but I hadn’t known how much of the village I would need to get pregnant. And I’m grateful for that help every day.
Feel Steady, Clear, and Empowered
Do I have to meet with a therapist to work with a donor or gestational carrier?
The American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) recommends psychoeducational counseling for intended and recipient parents receiving third-party treatment. Clinics typically require a letter with mental health recommendations. I provide one-session consultations for donor-assisted conception as part of this process. I also offer ongoing counseling to support the emotional side of third-party treatment and parenting as needed.
Do I need a referral from my doctor to work with you?
No referral is needed. You can contact me directly to schedule a free consultation—there is no need to go through your OB/GYN, fertility specialist, or primary care provider first.
If you're ready to start or even explore your options, you're welcome here. I’m happy to answer any questions and help you decide if this support feels like the right fit for you.
Do I have to be actively trying to conceive to start fertility counseling?
You don’t need to be trying to conceive to start fertility counseling.
Fertility counseling supports you at any stage, whether trying, pausing, stopping, or exploring other paths. You deserve care that honors your journey.
Breathe Through the Uncertainty
Can we talk about other concerns in our perinatal or infertility counseling sessions?
I start sessions by asking clients what’s most important to them. One day, it might be an IVF update. Next session, you might need to vent about work stress or prepare to set a boundary with your mom. I’ll help you navigate life’s challenges. While I specialize in infertility, I also support various mental health and life stress issues.
If I've already had three egg retrieval cycles and they all failed, should I give up?
Choosing your path to grow your family is a personal journey shaped by emotional, physical, and financial factors. Together, we'll reflect on how treatment has affected you, your trust in your care team, and the reasons behind your dream of parenting. Whether you continue treatment or not, the right choice is the one that feels best for you and your future.
Is it possible to feel like myself again?
You are not defined by your bad days; brighter days are ahead. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed, angry, or numb—especially during or after infertility and pregnancy—but you don’t have to face these feelings alone. With support, you can find self-compassion, build confidence in your decisions, and develop empowering habits for your health and well-being.
